tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post5441890322530673092..comments2023-06-03T08:12:06.270-06:00Comments on Only Skin Deep?: This one's for all the GirlsDaniellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17096971395012000364noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-37778682787695467672007-08-29T22:25:00.000-06:002007-08-29T22:25:00.000-06:00Scarlet is my niece. Always will be. I hate we lo...Scarlet is my niece. Always will be. I hate we lost her, and, perhaps, it could have been prevented. Scarlet, I think, was worried about worrying others, when the mole became troublesome, as she was independent. But, I think I can safely say that she would agree to "See a doctor" if your moles, freckles, or skin shows a change <BR/>I could go on for days about her attitude during treatment, but, I think she would rather I emphasize, to "See a doctor" as soon as you think something is suspect. <BR/>I hope her story will save others, and I know she does, too.<BR/>Watching Jeopardy is not the same without you, Babydoll.<BR/>God Bless you for helping to educate.<BR/>Leigh Lawrence Pleasantsybilllhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17188465666054204302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-59162323342764642492007-08-23T14:00:00.000-06:002007-08-23T14:00:00.000-06:00My name is Erik Hollander, better known to Scarlet...My name is Erik Hollander, better known to Scarlet, her family, and friends as VEETA. I am her "northern brother" living in wisconsin.<BR/><BR/>I was close friend of Scarlets, having the pleasure of meeting her through her brother Reese. We met back in the summer of 2001 and since I have been slowly accepted and adopted into her family as a Northern brother. Again, I am originally from and reside in Wisconsin. My reason for mentioning this again is that it proves no matter the distance between people, hearts and thoughts are always closer than any distance. <BR/><BR/>In my short-time knowing this amazing, caring, distinct, intelligent, and genuine woman we know as Scarlet; she used to call me and email me to "check-up" on her northern brother. I continue to miss those conversations in which I was given guidance, acceptance, and purpose to what I am doing miles away.<BR/><BR/>On many occasions I have driven and flown down to see Scarlet, her family, and friends. Since she was diagnosed we kept up with one another on her health. But, I will never forget the phone call from one of her best friends making me aware of her immediate situation back a year ago this August. <BR/><BR/>As any good friend or family member would do, I immediately drop all of my things to drive down. My only concern was Scarlet. Not my work, my friends, or my family in wisconsin. My only concern was for a dear friend that was not doing well. <BR/><BR/>I will also never forget two more moments. When I walked into her room that Thursday morning, her face just lit up as she called my name. She was unaware that I was going to be in town to be by her side. But for that moment, just that moment, I saw the smile on her face I that reminded me of my dear friend. My other moment was only hours later as gathered by family we all prayed for Scarlet as she passed before us. <BR/><BR/>As it is difficult for anyone to be in that moment, I could only stand there and take the pain I could from how sad her family was. It was sad but in the same moment a sad happiness for Scarlet was finally at Peace. I was rest-assured that she was in a better place.<BR/><BR/>I can never repay Scarlets family for their open hearts, open arms, time and money. More importantly, I can never forget the footprints Scarlet has left in my sand. Scarlet was a sister, was a great friend, and best of all..an inspiration!! <BR/><BR/>God bless the strength, drive, and hope her family continues to strive for keeping Scarlets life right in front of us for all to learn from. I love my sister and my southern family, god bless you all!!<BR/><BR/>Forever grateful,<BR/><BR/>Erik Hollander,<BR/>(VEETA)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-78649473524292226022007-08-23T10:03:00.000-06:002007-08-23T10:03:00.000-06:00Scarlet was so truly beautiful inside and out and ...Scarlet was so truly beautiful inside and out and as all of us, who knew her in life, are so glad to know that her story will help people become more aware of the causes and effects of skin cancer. She was taken too soon, but I know she would be happy to know her legacy will help to educate and prevent others.<BR/><BR/>"It is one of the greatest gifts for me to know that I have purpose beyond myself."- Pat McCormick<BR/><BR/>I miss you Scarlet!<BR/>God bless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-70153312330580442007-08-23T08:40:00.000-06:002007-08-23T08:40:00.000-06:00Thanks so much for including Scarlet's story on yo...Thanks so much for including Scarlet's story on your website and in your book. I know she would be glad that we are spreading awareness of this deadly disease! Look forward to your book.<BR/><BR/>JodyJody Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13303823629279589895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-31686769654869488152007-08-23T08:36:00.000-06:002007-08-23T08:36:00.000-06:00Thank you for including Scarlet's story on your we...Thank you for including Scarlet's story on your website and in your upcoming book. She continues to touch people's life and that is what she would want. I hope that we can continue to spread the awareness of Melanoma to everyone....I know that is what she would want. <BR/><BR/>Thanks Again...JAJody Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13303823629279589895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-92069739284885917492007-08-23T08:30:00.000-06:002007-08-23T08:30:00.000-06:00Educate, educate, educate! We must not let Scarle...Educate, educate, educate! We must not let Scarlet's passing be in vain. Everyone should know of the dangers of tanning and melanoma. <BR/><BR/>Thanks Danielle for keeping Scarlet's memory alive.<BR/><BR/>Peace Be With You,<BR/><BR/>Vann MooreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-78138362050755472032007-08-23T07:43:00.000-06:002007-08-23T07:43:00.000-06:00Hello All. My name is Carrie. I have been a friend...Hello All. My name is Carrie. I have been a friend of Scarlet's for longer than I can remember now! Words can't express how generous, kind, whole-hearted, full of life, and just down right funny this woman was! As the years passed, we found ourselves growing closer and closer as friends. I was one of two bridesmaids in her wedding. We used to say that there were no such thing as friends.. we were all family! She was the kind of woman that would do anything to make sure you were having a great day, if this meant doing a funny dance in the middle of a store, so be it! I can remember her diagnosis like it was yesterday.. Her mom called me while I was in a meeting for work and informed me of the tragic news.. I left right away and headed over! We really thought she would beat this!! I never even thought to grasp that this could kill her.. even until the morning of August 4 at 7:40ish that she was told to Rest In Peace my dear friend.. It was just skin cancer, is what I told myself.. that can't kill someone.. it is only skin deep.. it can't spread! Well was I in for a wide awakening! It can and will kill you! I will never forget that day as long as I live.. It took me almost an hour to gain the strength to walk into the room and kiss one of my best friends goodbye forever! I remember trying to make light of it by commenting on her perfectly manicured fingernails.. painted the color,"I'm really not a waitress", it was her favorite! I just didn't want to let go! I told her that I loved her and I would see her again one day.. This disease has made us all take a pause in life and be thankful for the things we have! Her husband Jody and I were looking at a picture of their daughter, Madison, last night and I had to fight back tears.. She smirks just like Scarlet! It was just another reminder that life is too short. I can only hope that my life will impacted as many as Scarlet's did in such a short amount of time she was given on this earth. I miss you and love you Car Car!Carrie Dawkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09193164488658046368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-34398988258161199752007-08-23T07:33:00.000-06:002007-08-23T07:33:00.000-06:00I worked with Scarlet briefly at Northwest. She wa...I worked with Scarlet briefly at Northwest. She was already getting sick by the time I knew her, but I could still see her will and determination to make sure that Madison came here strong and healthy. <BR/>Madison was born on the second anniversary of my daughter Lauren's death, and Scarlet believed that Lauren had been Madison's guardian angel. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for remembering Scarlet so beautifully. I believe that something good comes out of everything, and if a young woman learns from this story, then Scarlet's death will not have been in vain.<BR/><BR/>LaJuan TalloAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-69019802116167119652007-08-23T07:16:00.000-06:002007-08-23T07:16:00.000-06:00Scarlet and her family continue to be a blessing t...Scarlet and her family continue to be a blessing to me. I admire their strength, courage, and willingness to serve others through Scarlet's story. Truly, she is forever missed. However, her legacy lives on. Much love to all of you and God Bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-91168579311225620692007-08-22T22:56:00.000-06:002007-08-22T22:56:00.000-06:00It's amazing at all the lives Scarlet managed to t...It's amazing at all the lives Scarlet managed to touch in her short time here with us. Scarlet battled this horrible disease with so much courage, a strong faith and a positive attitude. She continues to be an inspiration to us all and your story beautifully captures her memory. Thank you for sharing. <BR/><BR/>Many Blessings,<BR/>Cheryl GardnerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-27424438982440004602007-08-22T22:25:00.000-06:002007-08-22T22:25:00.000-06:00I met Scarlet when she was an adorable 2 year old....I met Scarlet when she was an adorable 2 year old. She grew into a lovely, happy, gifted young woman. Her death was cruel and senseless...but undoubtedly her story will help prevent this tragedy from happening to another family. It can't be said enough...malignant melanoma is curable if detected early. I know, because I had one removed in 1990, and another in 2000. The first one, which was above my knee, did not look suspicious at all, but it itched off and on, like a mosquito bite. The second one was the size of the period at the end of this sentence, but it was on my face, dark, and it was brand new. Both times I noticed them and went to the dermatologist Both times I was told they were probably nothing, but then the biopsies proved otherwise. Each time, a second procedure was performed to remove more surrounding skin, but then no more treatment was necessary. My advice is this: If you have suspicions, don't wait for a mole or spot on your skin to change shape or size or color...go ahead and check it out. Lastly, I just want to commend Scarlet's parents, husband, and family for their wonderful strength and bravery.<BR/><BR/>Kathleen BartholomewAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-67995516358780227212007-08-21T09:28:00.000-06:002007-08-21T09:28:00.000-06:00Thank you so much for the rememberance of Scarlet ...Thank you so much for the rememberance of Scarlet on your website. I was a journalism student of hers and she was by far my favorite teacher. I can only hope to accomplish half of what she did in her journalistic lifetime. Thank you again.<BR/><BR/>Whitney HallAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662117053173821506.post-51760606399255446552007-08-20T14:36:00.000-06:002007-08-20T14:36:00.000-06:00Danielle, Thank you so much for your kind words an...Danielle,<BR/> <BR/>Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing and including Scarlet's story in your book. I know she would be so happy. Please let me know when/where the book will be available.<BR/> <BR/>God bless,<BR/><BR/>Cheryl MooreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com